Surviving a Stroke - Hope and Progress

While strokes can be deadly, millions of people doalterations, or significant difficulty in communicating.
survive. But the impact on their lives is oftenLosing control of bodily function can feel like losing
devastating. Stroke can affect quality of life on socontrol of your life, with a return to any kind of
many levels: physical, psychological, social, andnormalcy seeming an insurmountable goal. This leads
emotional. It is usually sudden and unexpected, makingto fear, and a kind of psychological paralysis to
it all the more debilitating and traumatic, plunging theaccompany the physical handicap.
sufferer into an alien and often terrifying newSo the first goal must be progress itself. Finding your
existence. Friends and family members are alsoway back to stability and enjoyment will require a
impacted & share in the trauma. All who aregreat deal of time and patience. Expecting overnight
involved face an emotional battle to accept a life thatresults only leads to disappointment and deflation. But
is changed, perhaps irrevocably, but still very muchby deciding for yourself that you will embrace patience,
worth enhancing and enjoying.and focus on one small milestone at a time, you can
The good news is that a huge amount of expertisederive enjoyment from the actual journey. Once you
has gone into the study of improved living for strokebegin to sense that progress, the greater shining goal
survivors and those close to them. Many quality of lifestarts to beckon, and you believe that real
studies involving physicians, neurologists andimprovement in quality of life is actually possible. That
rehabilitation researchers have yielded a wealth ofhope drives you from one milestone to the next, slowly
knowledge about improving quality of life following acreating a snowball effect, lifting you up and away
stroke.from the crippling depression.
Whether you are a victim or carer, you may not beWe can see a parallel in the way that sport develops
surprised to learn that one of the most significant keysus physically and mentally. When we play to win, we
to survival is hope. This deceptively simple word canreally enjoy putting in serious effort. The tougher the
mean the difference between a virtual living death, andchallenge, the greater the absorption, and
a life truly worth living. Hope derives from theconcentration. We readily accept the triumphs and
awareness of steady, perceptible progress towardsetbacks, so long as we can see ourselves moving
regaining and maintaining a workable, and evencloser to the goal. While dealing with the effects of a
enjoyable, day-to-day life pattern.stroke can be a serious matter, seeing it as a sporting
But it doesn't always come easily. Stroke victims facechallenge can be an effective psychological booster
multiple obstacles that seem to stack up against them,and help eliminate that inner paralysis.
including impaired functional ability, psychological